Jessica Gross Longreads April 23 minutes 5, words. It marked the beginning of not only her involvement in the spanking community, but her freelance career as well. Since then, Keenan has written a series of controversial polemics—a case for legalizing polyamory , an argument that spanking is a sex act —as well as reported from countries across the globe. In her new memoir, Sex With Shakespeare , Keenan examines her own relationships with both spanking and love through the lens of her longstanding obsession with Shakespeare. His characters, who appear in dialogue with Keenan, have as forceful a presence as the people in her life.
Illustration by Niallycat. My First Time is a column and podcast series exploring sexuality, gender, and kink with the wide-eyed curiosity of a virgin. We all know your "first time" is about a lot more than just popping your cherry. From experimenting with kink to just trying something new and wild, everyone experiences thousands of first times in the bedroom—that's how sex stays fun, right? This week, we're talking to sex blogger Girl on the Net about her first time getting spanked.
But if your desire to leave a handprint and grab her backside keeps growing, you may be interested in a whole new level: erotic spanking. What is that? It's always a good idea if you're being spanked to enjoy it, but the person spanking can get highly aroused too.
We had met a few weeks earlier through a Stanford student group. He was quiet and broad-shouldered. I liked him right away. I was thunderstruck.